The Doctor, the Dancer, and the Art of the Reveal.
Meet Dr. Melissa Durfey, DACM, LE, CIEC: Founder of The Self Care Crown Method
AKA Mae D'Lovely: Sonoma County's Plus Sized Props Queen
Photo by: Britney Marina Photography
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Two Worlds, One Mission: Sustainable and Sparkling Self
Care For All
Most people think a Doctor’s office and a Burlesque stage are worlds apart. To me, they are so much more alike than they are different: they are both spaces where we learn to truly inhabit our skin
Photo by: Britney Marina Photography
Where Your Wellness Blueprint...
As a Doctor of Chinese Medicine, Licensed Esthetician, Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor and Empowerment Speaker, I spent years studying the blueprints of wellness, hormones, gut health, skin, nutrition, and all the intricate systems that make you, you.
I recieved my Doctorate at Pacific College of Health and Science, my Master's Degree at Oregon College of Oriental Medicine and my Bachelor's Degree in Community Health Education from Portland State University.
Meets Your Creative Blueprint...
As I crafted and embodied my burlesque persona Mae D’Lovely, I learned more than I ever thought I would about the blueprint of confidence and creativity. I realized that true beauty and wellness isn’t about finding flaws and "fixing" them, it’s about removing the “invisible costume” of stress, diet culture, and external expectations that keep us from our own spotlight.
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My Mission
Whether I’m helping you optimize your hormones, regulate your nervous system, get glowing skin from the inside out, or teaching you my favorite power pose for confidence, my mission is the same: to help you stop performing for the world and start headlining your own life.
Credentials & Care
DACM
Doctor of Acupuncture &
Chinese Medicine
LE
Licensed Esthetician
CEIC
Certified Intuitive Eating
Counselor
Based in Petaluma, California, but Serving Folks Globally
Ready to Headline Your Own Life?
Let’s remove the invisible costume together, one spotlight moment at a time.
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